What do you think about when you think of a successful woman – a woman with hoards of friends, a Rolodex jam-packed with business contacts, a busy social life, bulging bank accounts, material possessions, etc.? She may have all that and more but they are not all that distinguishes her. Beyond the usual expected tangibles, there are much more significant marks of a successful woman.
1. She doesn't dwell on the past. One of her mantras is "What's done is done." A successful woman pockets her lessons and move on. She believes that as long as God gives her life, she will leave the past behind and move on, because she has a lot of living to do. She will gladly tell you that she has places to go and people to see and she can do it best with less baggage.
2. She lives in the moment. A successful woman delights in savouring the moment – what is here and now, even when it doesn't seem to fit into her plan. She knows there are treasures buried beneath the surface of the present and she delights in each day's joys and discoveries.
3. She trusts God. A successful woman finds peace and comfort in the God who holds her life in His hands. She doesn't waste time being anxious and afraid because God has been faithful in the past, He is faithful every day and He will continue to be faithful. She prays for wisdom and guidance to deal with the challenges that come and she moves forward in faith, believing that God will do His perfect work.
4. She is comfortable in her own skin. A successful woman oozes confidence. She holds her head up. She looks people in the eye, not in arrogance, but with genuine interest
in what they are saying. And when she speaks, she speaks with conviction and passion. There is a graceful balance of power and elegance in her stride. She doesn't take cynics, critics and personality assassins seriously. She dismisses the useless drivel and milks whatever has merit, for all it's worth. She knows she's not perfect but she acknowledges her strengths and works on her weaknesses. She knows who she is, where she's been, her worth, her place, her achievements and her vision.
5. She relishes every chance to learn and grow. A successful woman knows how to celebrate her success but she doesn't linger too long at the party. In a blink, she's on the next train to self-improvement or professional advancement. She knows the value of adding to her knowledge base, learning something new, upgrading her professional qualification and being a connoisseur of her chosen recreational activity.
6. She embraces opportunities to help other women. A successful woman believes that success should be the springboard to launch all manner of initiatives to help other women. She is happy to dip into her wealth of knowledge, resources and experience to help improve women's lives. Whether to teach, counsel or inspire, she wants to see other women grow and achieve their own dreams and successes.
7. She takes care of herself. On this score, a successful woman puts us to shame. She works hard, she plays hard and she takes care of herself, without guilt or apology. She identifies what she needs to be her best self in every area of her life. She sets a schedule, marks the boundaries and immerses herself in her own brand of TLC.
Whether you are or aspire to be a successful woman, ensure that these marks distinguish you as no other marks of success will.
Relaxation Tips
Taking a Nap – to rejuvenate the body, even though you may not always fall asleep, but resting the body is a key form of relaxation. Having Pets – spending some time with your pets is a great stress reliever since most pets are affectionate. Listening to Music – get away from the noise of the world and lose yourself in that quiet room with just your headphones and your favourite music. Reading – reading a book helps take you mind away to another world, if only for a while. Walking – when you are having a stressful day at home or work, take a walk. You don't have to go very far, around your neighbourhood or near your workplace would do. The fresh air will also do you some good. - Akiela Hope
