Congratulations to Keshorn Walcott, our 19-year-old gold medallist and all Olympians of the 2012 Games. Everyone is commenting on what this will do for young people in motivating them to be the best that they can be. I am working with young people who are trying so hard to be the best, among them young men of African descent.
When you look at them you see the motherland, you see our ancestors in their hair, their very dark-through all shades of brown-smooth complexion, their facial structure, and their tall, stately, muscular physique. I am hoping and praying that from now on when such young men enter a business place, or try to speak with someone, that they are not met with criticism, fear, a "bad-eye" or "cross-eye" and that they are not followed by the security at the business place because it is felt that they are shoplifters or bandits.
Or when they walk in groups that they are not looked at in fear, or they will not be stopped and searched when they find themselves out late at night having to walk home. I really pray that they are met with a smile or a "how can I help you?" One of my "young people," who is now an adult and teaching at a secondary school, discussed with me a scenario. He had a friend here from Wales, blonde hair and blue-eyed. They decided to visit a mall.
My young man was dressed very carefully, neat and hair combed, and the blonde visitor wore a dirty rubber slipper, a very worn and stretched T-shirt and a shorts. When they got to the mall, they went about their business. My negroid-featured young man could not help but comment to his Caucasian friend that if he were dressed like him and walked through the mall, he would be labelled a vagrant, some poor person who could possibly be a bandit or a shoplifter and he would be treated as such.
If he were alone, mall patrons would look at him suspiciously and give him a wide berth, or he would be followed by security. If the blonde-haired male went to the mall alone dressed like that, he would be allowed to go about his business. There would have been no suspicion.
My prayer is that the success of all our Olympians will help all adults in our society see the potential for greatness in our youth, no matter where they reside, no matter if they come from homes with single mothers, homes in which mothers and fathers are not "married," homes with "step-fathers and step-mothers."
I also long for the day when we will stop the labelling and only work with all families no matter their composition. I have been saying for years that we must begin to focus on the concept of "family" and "community as family." This is 2012, for screaming out loud.
Anna Maria Mora
Arouca
