Thank God for independent senators. (Did I just say that? Forgive me; it's an expression.) From what transpired last month in the debate on the Children's Bill, it is patent that only the ones void of the trappings of political affiliation were brave enough to speak out-and to do so rationally-on the topic of equal rights for all citizens.
The independent senators made an historic stand by abstaining from voting on the bill because (i) it permits two minors to have heterosexual sex but not homosexual sex and (ii) it fails to repeal laws (such as the Muslim, Hindu and Orisha Marriage Acts) that allow marriage at ages as young as 12 (Newsday, May 27).
Senator Helen Drayton, among others, went on not simply to make note of the fact that T&T's laws still discriminate against and criminalise gays (much more so than other countries including Jamaica) but actually to say that such "politics of the past...really has no place in our law books."
Perhaps it was the late hour (4.30 am) to which the debate dragged on but the senatorial stupor persisted as Ms Drayton's appeals fell on deaf political ears. PNM Senator Faris Al-Rawi urged that "they should debate other concerns another day."
Indeed, with all the calls for "discussion," "debate," "consultation" and "bringing the issue to the public," there are few rational voices on this topic. And they are either not heard as loudly as the other, irrational side or they are dismissed for consideration on "another day."
Protesting what?
In fact, a May 13 Sunday Guardian editorial pointed out that more than a decade ago the late Prof Julian Kenny, another independent senator, noted the Equal Opportunity Amendment Bill proclaimed in 2001 didn't make provisions for sexual orientation. That bill, too, came up for debate at an ungodly hour: 2 am.
Today, Minister Verna St Rose-Greaves often seems like the lone voice of reason in the crowd of evasive politicians like Vernon De Lima, deputy chairman of the Congress of the People (COP), who have opted for a cop-out (excuse the pun) by saying the decriminalisation of homosexuality needs more "consultations" or should be put up for a referendum.
Hazel Brown, co-ordinator of the Network of Non-Governmental Organisations for the Advancement of Women, has wagged her finger at uneducated pastors from craftily titled churches like "Name of Jesus Christ Fellowship" protesting with signs saying things like "United Nation (sic) is wrong." The Guardian reported that the pastors "erroneously believed the Government was about to pass legislation granting same-sex couples the right to marry."
And then there's the little group that could: Caiso (Coalition Advocating for Inclusion of Sexual Orientation). T&T's gay-rights advocacy group has been quietly walking into government ministry offices, UWI, Parliament, UN Human Rights Council in Geneva, the Italian Parliament, Organisation of American States and other places where it can teach, learn and promote rational discussion on the topic.
Over the past few weeks, Caiso has been lobbying for sexual orientation to be covered by the Equal Opportunity Bill as it covers race and religion, etc. But the deafening silence from those capable of changing the bill has been matched only by the raucous chorus from religious people who have inundated the press with their views.
"No such thing as 'same-sex marriage.'" "Church doesn't condone lifestyle." "They're threat to family values." "Gay rights? What about God's Law?" "Prof: Homosexuality a dead end" (speaking not at an academic meeting but a Pentecostal assembly).
Who defines marriage: a god, the universe, or people? Do gays threaten family values? In the same way our murder rate does? Our rampant domestic violence and child abuse? Our endemic drinking problem? Who's god? The Hindu ones?
Churches in tents
No one lobbies for anything unless one has something to gain. For the gay community, that's a literal and symbolic proclamation that they're not criminals, anomalies or non-entities. For the church, both the ancient edifices and the white tents in car parks, it's publicity for self-proclaimed pastors from craftily titled churches with badly spelled signs, and it's money: congregating and galvanising people into lobbying for a "cause" where lobbying costs money.
The simple truths remain unaltered by all the threats of Sodom and Gomorrah, legalisation of bestiality and boys learning ballet. Decriminalising homosexuality will neither make people gay nor cause massive hurricanes. Fighting against it just sets us back on the scale of progress and human rights, and gives us yet another source of international embarrassment.
A referendum for minority rights has never been a good idea. That we have a track record of putting off this issue for another day or another decade shows no government is willing to take an historic leadership role as the independent senators have. And 'public consultations' can happen only if the public is informed so simply talking about having consultations is not good enough; you need to educate the people.
So it's time for the headlines to read something else, for the stories to quote someone else, for the "truths" and predictions to have a rational basis. It's time for more people to speak out. Let's get some balance to the argument.