Bri­an Chin Le­ung

I de­cid­ed to ask some of my fe­male clients what they found sexy about the male physique, and I was quite sur­prised to learn that most of them had strong and def­i­nite views as to what turned them on when it came to the male physique. I am shar­ing two of my client's view points; they have used pseu­do­nyms, but the views are 100 per cent their own:

Sarah

I could lie and tell you that it's his smile or his sen­si­tiv­i­ty, but what I would re­al­ly be talk­ing about would be what makes a man at­trac­tive to a woman. There is a sub­tle dif­fer­ence be­tween what at­tracts us to a man and what we find sexy. If I am at­tract­ed to a man, this is some­one that has at­trib­ut­es that are pleas­ing or ap­peal­ing to me. But, if I find a man sexy, that's dif­fer­ent! This is a man who has some­thing that arous­es me, ex­cites me!

The biggest turn-on for me is a great over­all physique, mus­cu­lar, but not over­done. Broad shoul­ders, mus­cu­lar chest, slim waist, great legs and butt-I want it all! Too many times, men con­cen­trate on just one part of their bod­ies. For ex­am­ple, they bulk up their up­per body, but their legs are like tooth­picks. But when a man walks in­to a room and he has a great, healthy uni­for­mi­ty about his body, so much so that his shirt is cling­ing to him, just enough so you can see the hint of firm toned mus­cle un­der­neath. His stom­ach is wash­board flat and his jeans are slung low, you know that if he were to take off that shirt, he would be boast­ing an eight pack!

When you are look­ing good, your body lan­guage is go­ing to show it. A man who has a great body is go­ing to car­ry him­self con­fi­dent­ly, hips loose and tilt­ed for­ward, great pos­ture, with his shoul­ders and up­per back re­laxed, chest slight­ly lift­ed and chin up. Just pic­ture it, it's hard to do that and look good if you have a pro­trud­ing stom­ach, right? If you look good, your body lan­guage is go­ing to ex­ude con­fi­dence and that is sexy!

Jen­nifer

I love a great pair of legs on a man. Well-de­fined calves, quads and ham­strings do it for me. The World Cup is one of my favourite com­pe­ti­tions. Track is one of my favourite sports. And it isn't the fan­cy foot­work or speed that keeps me glued to the game! A man with a great pair of ath­let­ic legs and well-shaped, squat-in­spired, dim­pled butt is sexy. A flat stom­ach (not nec­es­sar­i­ly ripped, be­cause his out­go­ing lim­ing per­son­al­i­ty doesn't lend to a ripped stom­ach, he en­joys food and wine, like me!), mus­cu­lar chest, arms and back are def­i­nite turn-ons. Not Mr Olympia, but a well-de­fined, firm, hug­gable body.......hm­m­mm...... back to the point.

The point is, sexy to me is re­al­ly about an over­all well nour­ished bal­anced physique, with em­pha­sis on the legs! Men who are too de­vel­oped, like se­ri­ous body­builders are a def­i­nite turn-off. A hap­py bal­ance is sexy. From the above com­ments, it is ob­vi­ous that women are more in­ter­est­ed in a male physique that has shape and mus­cle tone. It would do most men well to start an ex­er­cise pro­gramme which could help fight off that flab­by look. Keep train­ing.