KEVON FELMINE
kevon.felmine@guardian.co.tt
While many Ortoire Village residents were cleaning and decorating on Christmas Eve, Christianna Ramdial agonisingly caressed the coffin bearing the remains of her two-year-old son, Allon.
With his body too decomposed for a viewing, Ramdial, 19, could only kiss a photograph of her baby boy stuck on his tiny coffin before bearers took his body away to the grave. She even brought a few of his clothes to the cemetery for his humble farewell. Not even the comfort of her father, Ronald Lezama, could ease her pain.
Not many people attended Allon's funeral at the Ortoire Village Cemetery in Mayaro on Saturday. Apostle Mervyn Rodriguez of the Dunamis Apostolic Evangelical Assembly lamented that had it not been Christmas Eve, more people would have shown up. However, he said the village needed to pay its respect to the fallen child.
"I know if it were not Christmas Eve, you would have seen more people, but you see human-kind needs to understand what is a priority. Life is a priority over a season because the reason for the season is life.
"Jesus Christ said I am the way, the truth and the life, and we need to treat our little brother here with the same respect as any other dignitary or any other important person who dies. I think the village needs to pay its respect," Rodriguez said.
Allon Ramdial
Rodriguez preached that in everything God allows to manifest, there is a lesson for those involved. While the Holy Bible teaches that it is appointed for man to die, Rodriguez warned that death comes at any age. He said that is why people need to tell each other the things they need to and do things before they or their loved ones die. However, Rodriguez comforted mourners, saying that Allon passed away before the world could contaminate him.
"He died in his innocence. No sin. That is a passage to heaven."
He said although Allon lived a short life, he touched the lives of many while others lived for half a century without doing the same. He urged people to call their family, relatives and friends and tell them "I love you" and not take each other for granted.
With the thudding sound of dirt hitting the wooden coffin, Ramdial knelt over the grave, staring at Allon's picture. Mourners, including Allon's father, Al Murphy, covered the grave while his friend, Christina Thomas, sang a farewell song she wrote for him.
Tragedy struck on December 9 when Allon wandered out of his makeshift home at the Ortoire Fishing Facility. Investigators believed he fell into the Ortoire River and drowned. After three days of searching, Mayaro lifeguards and the Hunters Search and Rescue Team found Allon’s body between rocks near the river mouth.
Mayaro MP Rushton Paray commended the community who joined search teams when Allon when missing. Paray told mourners that the circumstance of Allon's death spoke to a bigger picture of how the country deals with homelessness and young people.
"I am hoping that coming out of this tragedy with Allon, we can look at policies so that not another Allon has to die in this circumstance," Paray said.
Paray said he will continue working with the family in 2023 to get assistance from various governmental ministries.
