When one looks at a map of the world, it is a tough job actually locating the dot that confirms there is a place named T&T- size is very relevant in terms of sport. To work out T&T's population of 1.3 million as a percentage of the world's population of billions involves countless zeros after the decimal point – numbers are very relevant on the subject of sport. In my lifetime (1939 – to time of writing) this "dot" of 1.3 million people has produced the following "exceptional" internationally recognized sports personalities – Sir Learie Constantine; Sonny Ramadhin; Brian Lara (cricket); Rodney Wilkes, McDonald Bailey, Mike Agostini, Hasely Crawford, Ato Boldon (Track and Field); Dwight Yorke, Russell Latapy (football); George Bovell 111 (swimming); Stephen Ames (golf); Emile Ramsammy (jockey).
We can safely add the national football team qualifying for World Cup 2006 in Germany as the smallest nation ever to do so, and to a lesser extent, our national cricket team reaching the final of the 2009 IPL tournament in India - apologies for any serious omissions. The above list deals with sport only and does not consider our international contributions in music (steelband), culture (Carnival), literature (Vidia Naipaul) and a history of living in a peaceful democracy made up of three major religions. I have mentioned only those who are "exceptional" but there are many in the second tier of "very good" including some present day stars. I don't know about you, but when I reflect on the above and understand the less than acceptable conditions under which the individuals made it to the top, I feel very proud to be a Trini and I do not like the way we continually beat up on ourselves with a gift for focusing on the negatives when so many positives are staring us in the face - for example, the recent "failure" of the track and field team in South Korea. Is "failure" a realistic assessment?
I lay the blame for this traditional negative attitude squarely on the heads of politicians over the decades. Successive governments in power have looked after themselves and wasted billion$ in countless, useless ways. Parties in opposition have done little but oppose for the sake of opposing and seem not to mind sounding like idiots. Listening to the Parliament Channel re the debate on SoE made me cringe at the rubbish spewed and time wasted. Racial talk comes up only under the heading of "politics"; on a day to day basis we all live harmoniously based on any world criteria. Recent events cause me to agree with the curfew and SoE, and I thank and congratulate the members of the public who have provided information to the police which has led to some amazing and scary discoveries.
This new found willingness to help the authorities is a huge step in the maturity of our nation where lack of courage in many areas is a known hallmark. Please keep up the good work and let us all live in peace again.
Back to South Korea and in my opinion it was not a case of failure, not meeting expectations, winning only one medal, and a cause for national disappointment. Of course I would have liked more success, but I keep reminding myself that minute little T&T has to compete against the world and winning even one medal is cause for joy. How many large nations failed to win a medal? We learned from the past and sent a compact team of quality athletes along with an acceptable number of officials. Several of our athletes reached semi-final or final stage. Jehue Gordon missed his 400m final by 1/100th of a second and the kid is 19 years old! The men's relay team was hindered by a falling competitor at the last leg.
Richard Thompson tried his best against an amazing 100m field where even a toe-nail can make a difference. I feel confident that every Jack and Jacqueline gave their all to make us proud and the last thing they need is to come home to a barrage of negatives. Please don't get me wrong. I am all for constructive criticism, setting high goals and reaching for the stars instead of the mountain peaks. However, I am also for an overdose of encouragement, motivation, sensitivity, looking for the positives even if they are sometimes hard to find; making young people feel special and important and part of the team; coaches masking their personal disappointment and frustration; understanding that on occasion the disappointed athlete needs a quiet hug and a shoulder to lean on more than anything else. Choice of words, tone of voice and sense of timing are crucial components of constructive criticism. I do not believe that any batsman deliberately makes "duck"; any footballer misses a penalty on purpose or any athlete decides to finish last on a given day. There is something in each of us known as personal pride.
Referring back to my opening paragraph, I always expect our football team to beat the likes of Bermuda, Barbados and other Caribbean territories, and our cricket team to win the Regional series simply because they are up against comparable talent. However, when it comes to international competition, while I expect 150 percent effort and commitment, I suggest that expectations regarding victory should be more reasonable. As long as you give your all every minute of the game or race and happen to lose, I can live with that. My four children were all very good competitive swimmers in Canada and they trained hard every day for years. They won many races and also lost many but they knew they had only one question to answer – "did you give it your total effort from start to finish?" My son Douglas won lots of medals but when he swam against Olympic Gold Medal winner Alex Baumann, did I really expect him to win? If my kids did their best then in my eyes they were genuine winners even if they finished last. That's how I judge our national players and athletes, since no person ever born has been able to do better than his/her best. Having said that, selectors keep picking players who are not producing – best or no best! Whose fault is that?
Every Sunday morning it is my privilege to meet with 35 teenagers accused of the worst of crimes. I know what they did; I am aware of their family backgrounds but I also know that as human beings, despite failing society, what they need most is to be told they are special, they matter, they are loved, there is hope and there are people willing to hold their hands to help them to happier times. They teach me more about human behaviour and what counts in life (which also applies to all athletes) than any University course and the honest truth is I cannot wait for Sunday mornings to become a wiser person. I can provide Selwyn Ryan's task force with 80 percent of what they need to know about what causes criminality even though every half intelligent person already knows the answers. Why do we keep reinventing the wheel? Jesus said the second most important commandment is to love your neighbour as yourself. Let us use the curfew and SoE to redefine "love"; redefine our "neighbour" and redefine our own life values. Then 2012 will be a wonderful year in beautiful T&T. Say your prayers and keep smiling.
P.S. A special "happy 80th birthday" (Sept. 06) to my good friend "Boboy" Maharaj and thanks for all the many wonderful things you have done to keep racing alive especially during the "dark hours" of the 1990's.
