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Monday, July 14, 2025

Things That Mat­ter

Always better to do the right thing

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20130819

Life is full of op­por­tu­ni­ties to take the easy way out. Do­ing the right thing seems to in­volve many shades of grey–find­ing short­cuts al­ways looks ap­peal­ing. It's some­times eas­i­er to do the wrong thing, but it's al­ways bet­ter to do the right thing.

So much of what seems con­ve­nient and ex­pe­di­ent at any giv­en mo­ment is re­al­ly a dis­trac­tion.

Temp­ta­tions to take the easy way will throw us off track and send us in the wrong di­rec­tion in our lives.

Even though we live in a world that con­sid­ers val­ues flu­id and sub­ject to change with cir­cum­stances or pop­u­lar opin­ion, we know we can re­ly on cer­tain ab­solutes. We all have a sense of right and wrong.

Stand­ing up for what's right isn't a mat­ter of pop­u­lar opin­ion. It's not about some sit­u­a­tions and not oth­ers. There are some things that aren't ne­go­tiable. The fun­da­men­tals don't change. It's some­times eas­i­er to do the wrong thing but it's al­ways bet­ter to do the right thing.

Know your val­ues and don't de­part from them. Choose right over easy when­ev­er life of­fers you a short­cut. Some peo­ple are in­ces­sant crit­ics. As a sport leader it's the price you have to pay.

There are peo­ple who will do every­thing pos­si­ble to crit­i­cise you and dam­age your cred­i­bil­i­ty in the eyes of the gen­er­al pub­lic. When peo­ple crit­i­cise you, it's not al­ways for your ac­tions but for what you rep­re­sent.

Even in the midst of crit­i­cism you have to stay fo­cused and con­tin­ue on the path­way you be­lieve in. Some­times it makes no sense or serves any use­ful pur­pose try­ing to fig­ure out or to make sense of crit­i­cism.

Sol­id foun­da­tions are crit­i­cal in all as­pects of life. The most im­por­tant foun­da­tion stone of them all is your char­ac­ter. How you han­dle things when the go­ing gets tough and ob­sta­cles, set­backs and dis­ap­point­ments present them­selves.

It's al­ways most im­por­tant to stand firm for things that mat­ter.

It's al­ways bet­ter when faced with dif­fi­cult sit­u­a­tions rather than com­plain­ing about a sit­u­a­tion, try to count the bless­ings and be a pos­i­tive force to make things bet­ter.

We live in a world with per­verse and crooked peo­ple as a re­sult it's easy to sim­ply be a com­plain­er and a crit­ic and be­come part of mob rule and rab­ble rous­ing.

We have to start go­ing back to ba­sics and in­stead of fo­cus­ing on the neg­a­tives fo­cus on the pos­i­tives.

T&T is once again en­joy­ing an­oth­er mo­ment of glo­ry on the world stage. Last week, Je­hue Gor­don dug deep and showed the world yet again that T&T can de­liv­er and pro­duce world class. If you ever want­ed a metaphor for all that's blessed and great about T&T look at the tape of Gor­don's gold medal run and press re­play over and over again. Pay close at­ten­tion you will see in­tegri­ty, courage, de­ter­mi­na­tion and an in­domitable will to win no mat­ter what the chal­lenge of ob­sta­cle.

What served Gor­don well was his strong foun­da­tion, his up­bring­ing, his self-be­lief, dis­ci­pline and faith.

There is so much to be proud and pas­sion­ate about there is so much to be pos­i­tive about.

Two of our best women track and field ath­letes are cur­rent­ly fac­ing a dif­fi­cult mo­ment in their ca­reers. I don't know them to be de­lib­er­ate cheats so my fer­vent hope is that they will over­come, learn and grow through the neg­a­tiv­i­ty. What will serve both of them well will be their strong foun­da­tion, fam­i­ly sup­port and up­bring­ing, self-be­lief, dis­ci­pline and above all faith in God.

In clos­ing I wish to ex­tend con­do­lences to An­nette Knott, gen­er­al sec­re­tary of TTOC, on the pass­ing of her lov­ing hus­band David. David was a friend and sup­port­er of sport and the Olympic move­ment in T&T. May he rest in peace.

Bri­an Lewis is the pres­i­dent of the Trinidad and To­ba­go Olympic Com­mit­tee. To learn more about the Olympic val­ues, spir­it and ideals vis­it http//: www.ttoc.org

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