To those who are yet to embark on their own journey to the success they want, successful people may seem like a mysterious bunch. After all, they have had to face challenges we cannot imagine. In fact, they may continue to face obstacles of one sort or another, if they are to remain successful. Additionally, people envy their success - some silently, while others do so overtly with disparaging remarks and unsubstantiated aspersions. Critics downplay their achievements and the criminal elements keep them on their radar. Yet, they continue to celebrate their success and may even go on to achieve greater things. How did they do it? What does it take to be successful? It takes a practical plan, dogged determination, piercing persistence, wearisome work and strong support. True but wait, that is not the full story. There is more. In the pursuit of success you also need -
1. Vision
Your vision gives you purpose. It engenders the determination and persistence required to keep working every day, plodding along steadily, sometimes slowly and often, with fear, doubt, loneliness and uncertainty weighing you down. Formulate your vision from what truly matters to you. Strengthen it with a foundation of information. Brighten it with the essence of your personality and splashes of creativity. Stretch it to its limits - the day you achieve your success, the people who will celebrate with you, the changes your success will bring to your daily life and your relationships. Refresh and revise your vision as you go along because situations change, you change and you might discover a new angle, a new destination, a different or additional level of success that interests you.
2. Voice
Often, scared of what people may think, say or do, you keep your thoughts, your feelings, your goals, your plans and your anxieties bottled inside. If you are honest, you will admit that they stifle you, frustrate you and keep you trapped. Your voice is crucial to achieving your success.
•Use your voice. Speak to yourself as you formulate and clarify your vision and decide if and how far you want to pursue it, to help beef up your self-confidence and deal with any challenges that surface.
•Use your voice - share your vision and your plans, ask questions, summon support and refute the doomsday theories of naysayers.
•Use your voice - encourage those who are facing their own brand of challenges.
•Use your voice - speak honestly, confidently and passionately.
3. Verve
Verve (dynamism, energy, spirit, vigour, passion) is the fuel that hits at the heart of the need and desire to act in the name of the success you envision. Even simple short-term goals need the spark of passion to prompt and sustain the actions you may dread but need to take. Verve (passion) helps to blast through all manner of negativity. It prevents you from falling asleep to the drone of the mundane tasks that beset any pursuit. It won't let you give up when discouragements, disappointments, misunderstanding and criticism litter your path.
Do you aspire to be success? Do you have a vision? Is your voice clear, confident, inquiring, comforting and inspiring? Are you passionate? A vision of the success you desire gives it life and fills your day with joy and purpose. Your voice helps to clarify the nature and scope of your vision, dispel fears and doubt, build self-confidence and resilience, silence the negativity from critics, illicit help and inspire support. The verve you bring to your vision and your plans deepens your determination, heightens your persistence and instils delight even in the most gruelling tasks.
Here's to your success!
