Implement paternity leave for men. That was the call yesterday to Government from Independent Senator Rolph Balgobin in his contribution to the Senate's debate on the Maternity Protection Bill. This extends maternity leave from 13 to 14 weeks. Balgobin said: "We give two days off for people when someone close to you dies, so give a day or two off to the fathers.
Let them have some time. If you get time to bury the dead you should get time to celebrate birth." Paying tribute to former Independent Senator Louise Horne, who has turned 100 years old, Balgobin noted Horne, in her book, had written about a US bases set up in T&T and children fathered with local women by soldiers from those base .
He said one could deduce Horne was saying women had had relationships with those men and the men had left. He said he thought that was a very powerful notion Horne had presented. "She advanced it as a possible explanation for why we are so accustomed today with this phenomenon of fatherless children," he said.
Saying T&T had a "crisis of maleness," he said the society needed to address that. Rather than laying the burden on mothers, he said fathers should have a day or two off as well to celebrate the birth of a child. He said demographics showed many T&T women were "making" children later and from his observations and research it appeared the later in life a woman had a child the greater her need for a recuperative period.
He added: "As crass as it may sound, someone in their teens can have children and be on their feet the next day. "But when you are in your late 20s and particularly 30s it becomes harder and harder to recover and we are having children in a context where family bonds are being strained.
He said fatherlessness had contributed to rising crime and if rampant criminality, which appeared to be closely correlated with fatherlessness, was to be solved, it had to start with the bill. Noting Winston "Gypsy" Peters' (now minister) Little Black Boys calypso, Balgobin said in many cases of youths being killed, there were no signs of fathers weeping at graves but mainly mothers and female relatives.
