When was the last time you saw a group of young boys pitching marbles or playing with sling shots and pop guns? It's very rare to see little girls playing hand games, moral and hopscotch these days, isn't it?
It seems as though today the games played are confined to small living spaces where the television is centre stage. Video games have taken over, and so has the computer, but in a bid to rationalise the situation, it must be examined whether the new gaming trend can solely be blamed on technological development. We have to question whether we, as human beings-leaders, mothers, fathers and elder siblings have contributed to the extinction of outdoor play among the younger generation.
Playing the blame game
Technology and its advancement have been blamed time and time again for many of the world's current issues. From gun violence to rape, murder and anti-social behaviour, the television, cable, music videos, video games and the Internet have been charged with exposing the world's youth population to anarchy and negativity. The question is, though, did we ever stop to look at whether we, as human beings allowed technology to become the authorities in our young people's lives?
Times have certainly changed. We're no longer in the 60's or 70's when mothers would stay at home and take care of their children, ensure meals were home-cooked and clothes for school were ironed for the week on Sundays. Instead, we live in a society where mothers are forced to be breadwinners and fathers are more often that not, deemed, dead beat dads.
We live in a world that is becoming over-populated. Where there was once the option of residing in a quaint community where trees, shrubs and bushes could be seen in abundance, tall apartment buildings and gated communities now dominate. With this change and signs of much more development to come, it's almost safe to say that the "old time" child's play will never come back.
The voice of a mother
Joanne Joseph is the single mother of two boys. She rents at an apartment building and works at Carib Brewery in the merchandising department. Joanne agrees that children today are at a disadvantage as a result of the lack of time parents have to spend with them. She is also concerned about the Government's apparent lack of thought when it comes to the design of many of the modern government housing structures being constructed. "It is tough when a single mother comes home from work and she has to sit and do homework with the children, and take care of the house and prepare for school and work the next day. Life has become tiresome," she acknowledged, lamenting that the family now left the home early in the morning and didn't return before sun down.
This, she said, was one of the reasons children have careened down a path where it seemed as though Gameboys and Nintendo Wii games were their babysitters. A lack of help from fathers is another issue of concern to the striving mother. She highlighted that many fathers lacked the willingness to spend time playing outdoors with their children. "Long time fathers would take their boys to fish and do outdoor sports, but nowadays, the magistrate has to summon some fathers to spend time with their children. They'd much prefer to lime and do the things they enjoy," she mused.
She hopes that in the near future, the HDC and other housing contractors in this country, would see the importance of installing outdoor activity areas for children from toddler to teenager. "There should be jungle gyms and swings and fruit trees on these compounds. They are building these housing complexes with adults in mind so children are becoming adults before time," she asserted. With her children's well-being a priority, Joanne said if she could change one thing about her current lifestyle for the benefit of her boys, it would be their habitation plan. "I would love for my children to be able to play outdoors, climb trees and play football. We live in an apartment building so there's nowhere for them to do that at home."
An educator's perspective
Malina LaFoucade is a retired primary school teacher, who has continued to volunteer at the La Pastora Government Primary School in Santa Cruz. She said that even at school play was downplayed. "Some teachers complain that the children come back to class too dirty with shirt buttons missing and all that, so they try to deter them from playing with marbles," she explained. Outside of school, however, LaFoucade said parents nowadays simply didn't have enough time. Reflecting on the past, LaFoucade said, "We have to go back to the days when the community raised a child, but even that nowadays is tough because people's attitudes have to change," she said. The educator sadly noted that no matter what solutions came up, one thing spiraled into another, with safety being a big issue. "You have to be careful who you leave your children with now, with so much going on in society." Nevertheless, she agreed that outdoor play was essential in the development of young children.
For more information on the importance of encouraging children to play outdoors, visit http://www.communityplaythings.co.uk/resources/articles/outdoor-play.html.
