The triumph of light over darkness is a theme widely observed in the celebration of Divali.
Cancer is a darkness that plagues survivors long after surgery and treatment. Often, the scars left behind are both physical and emotional.
One henna artist, Suraiya Surajdeen-Charles has taken up the challenge to beautify the scars left by the battle with cancer.
Every three minutes, a woman is diagnosed with breast cancer.
In Trinidad and Tobago, it is the second leading cause of death. Many survivors are haunted by scars and desire to feel beautiful again.
As we observe Breast Cancer Awareness Month this October, Suraiya is celebrating women through Mehndi art.
Inspired by her mother, Rosanna Surajdeen-Charles, who underwent a double mastectomy, Suraiya decided to “give hope to those who are uncomfortable with their battle scars.”
Noting that her mother is adjusting to her image post-surgery, Suraiya said, “She has something that she is not proud of and I decided to beautify her scars so she can feel more confident.”
As a henna artist Suraiya said, “If I can give her back a piece of her life using my talent I would be happy, seeing that she has given me so much.”
Suraiya’s mother was diagnosed with cancer two years ago. She said the battle has been hard and the road to recovery intense.
“Losing my breasts changed me in a way that I couldn’t love me and my body anymore,” Rosanna said.
The surgical removal of both breasts, partially “changes how you feel about your body. You expect your body to look a particular way.”
Determined not to let her scars consume her, she offered her body as a canvas to her daughter.
“What she is doing for me is trying to help my mind connect with my body.”
She noted, “I need to reconnect with my breast in order to feel whole again and that is something I haven’t felt in the last two years.”
Rosanna is now cancer-free, however, it has been a difficult journey for the family.
Suraiya has been caring for her mother after the surgery and said, “It was a struggle to see her lose her confidence, knowing she was a very strong and independent woman. It was hard for us both knowing that those were the breasts she fed me with.”
Suraiya said, “doing the Mehndi art on my mom is an indication that she does not have to fight the battle alone.”
She added both mother and daughter are happy with the final artwork.
“I know she felt imperfect but this art is a good way to help her accept her flaws.”
Suraiya is relieved that she can empower her mother to feel confident again and wants all survivors to know that scars or not, they are beautiful.
If you or someone you know would like more information on Mehndi art, you can contact Suraiya on Facebook at Mehindi By Suraiya or call her at 759-3696.
