“I’m not saying he is not a changed person now, but it does not take away from the fact that he did horrible things to innocent children.”
This was the comment made yesterday by the 39-old-man who, as a child over 20 years ago, blew the whistle on the predator who allegedly abused more than 30 boys at the St Dominic’s Children’s Home in Belmont, after reading the T&T Guardian’s exclusive interview with the man, titled “I’m a changed man.”
In that interview, published yesterday, the now 51-year-old man, who was named as the molester of the boys then, denied all the accusations levelled against him, labelling them as “propaganda and mischievousness.”
Speaking to Guardian Media, the accused abuser said 20 years was a long time and a lot can change in that period. And he noted that he has also changed.
But these comments are not sitting well with the main witness against him.
Yesterday, he rejected the alleged abuser’s calls for forgiveness.
“I have read the article with respect to the statements given by this perpetrator. I am not using the word alleged perpetrator and I am not referring to myself as an alleged victim, I am a victim and he is a perpetrator,” he said.
“I can remember every single thing that happened as though it happened yesterday despite it being more than 20 years ago,” he added.
The victim said he was “appalled, angry, upset and hurt” by the alleged abuser’s response.
“It is all well and good to move on with your life but there is actually no remorse for what he did. There is no consideration to the effect of what he would have done to me as a victim and perhaps the other victims,” he said.
The victim said he never knew of the 1997 Robert Sabga report as a child.
“I did not know about the Sabga report, I only found out about it recently. But what I do know is what happened to me as a child and the home at his hand under his care, his watch, that is what I know,” he said.
“I agree that there comes a time for forgiveness et cetera but at the end of the day, he was never held accountable for his actions.”
Instead of rehashing what happened over 20 years ago, the alleged abuser said the authorities should focus on what is currently going on at the children’s homes across the country.
But his victim had a differing view.
“While it is correct that they should focus on what is happening as well in the homes now too, it does not mean we should forget what he did to me and perhaps others 20 years ago,” he said.
“Why now? Why the outcry? Because you need to be held accountable for your actions. If you are born again, you are baptised into the sea of forgetfulness that is all well and good but at the end of the day, you still have to be held accountable for your actions. If I do something wrong, I am willing to stand the consequence for my actions regardless of whether or not I turned over a new leaf, so turning over a new leaf does not mean that you are not liable for what you did.”
The victim said if his abuser feels as though the recent media coverage is meant to tarnish his name, there is legal recourse he can take.
“I am just saying that I am happy that the mere fact the Sabga report became public the police investigating and are doing what they are doing, so I am happy and satisfied about that. Perhaps there may be some closure for the victims including myself and I am hopeful,” he said.
So far, six witnesses have provided statements to officers investigating the matter.
For now, however, the alleged abuser may have reopened some old wounds in his victim with his latest comments to Guardian Media.
“What he said (about insubstantial evidence) is a slap in the face because he knows better because the police never dealt with the matter,” the victim said.
“He was entrusted with the responsibility of looking after us, of nurturing us, he abused that privilege and authority that was placed in him when he committed these heinous acts against defenceless and innocent children and now wants to speak as though he didn’t do anything.”
Police are said to be close to completing their investigations into the matter.
