Graduation ceremonies can sometimes be a stuffy affair.
Remarks from the principal, a sometimes unrelatable guest speaker and a valedictorian whose presence on the lectern serves as a reminder that you were not the most outstanding person in your year.
But Selena Rooplal changed proceedings when the University of the West Indies (UWI) hosted its 2022 graduates for its Humanities and Education Faculty.
When calypsonian Lord Nelson broke into song after he was conferred with an honorary doctorate, it was the 23-year-old Rooplal that ‘started the dance.’
Her moves encouraged others to shake a leg and very soon the Centre of Excellence venue resembled Fantastic Friday.
But one can excuse Rooplal for breaking the formalities when you understand what she went through to don the blue robes.
For the Freeport woman, getting her Spanish degree was more than just a personal accomplishment.
“Being the only child in the family to reach tertiary level education, I really wanted to pursue my goals and make my family proud,” Rooplal told Guardian Media.
But her journey would not be an easy one. And a major added responsibility came in the form of her biggest blessing. Because it would be on the eve of her third and final year that Rooplal and her husband Dharmendra would learn that a baby is on the way.
Rooplal said she was faced with a decision. And for some the most obvious sacrifice would have been school, but Rooplal said she was determined to do it all.
“I told myself I am keeping this baby and I am not taking a break (from school) because I knew if I stopped, I wouldn’t finish, so I made the sacrifice, I got help from my parents and it motivated me a lot because at that stage I just had a few months to finish.”
But as optimistic as the Spanish major was, the road travelled was full of obstacles.
“I would often wonder how am I going to get time to do my exams, when I have to go to clinic I had to reschedule my exams, one time I did an oral exam in the car. Sometimes I would not have time to eat, because I only had time to see about the baby and do my school work.”
Rooplal said a major motivating factor was also knowing that the degree would bring her one step closer to becoming a teacher and that would mean financial security for her son Aryan.
She credited her husband for supporting her dreams and being the sole breadwinner for the family during her pregnancy and the pursuit of her degree.
“He worked Sunday to Sunday, twelve-hour shifts, it was he who got everything for us, not many people have that and I am thankful for that.”
Rooplal is now hoping that other young women will be inspired by her experience.
“Do not let pregnancy or anything else hinder your education, if I can do it, you can do it as well, and don’t let words of negative people get to you, you follow your heart, you know what you want and you go forward.”
Rooplal said the plan now is to focus on being a mother to young Aryan while she applies to the Teaching Service Commission. She told Guardian Media that she is positive she will realise her professional dreams and given her journey so far it would be a brave person to bet against her.
