Little did Antonio Gregory Jack know that as he stepped into the corridor of his apartment at Phase I, Powder Magazine, Cocorite, on May 4 to smoke, it would be his last act.
He was one of four people that were killed when gunmen opened fire on residents at the housing complex, in a mass shooting which has since been attributed to a fight for turf between warring gangs in the area.
According to survivor Mylesy James, “He was simply in the wrong place at the wrong time.”
Jack was the third victim to be laid to rest following a funeral service at St Anthony’s RC Church, Petit Valley.
Fighting back tears as she delivered the eulogy yesterday, Jack’s sister JJ described him as, “Very hard-working, funny, and loved by everyone.”
Claiming he loved children, she recalled a childhood memory when their mother would have disciplined “Pharaoh” as she called him, and his twin - after she was found lying on the ground as a baby.
Indicating Jack was a “limer,” she said, “If Pharaoh see you in the road, he would never pass you straight. He greets everyone with a smile.”
Struggling to hold on to her composure as she bent her head and swallowed several times, JJ told the congregation he had loved drawing and dancing.
“Anything for his family ... anything to make a dollar,” she said.
Singling out several persons whom she referred to by name, JJ said, “He had good family and good friends.”
Thanking them for always ensuring he was safe and returned home in one piece, she said, “He will be sorely missed and will forever be in our hearts.”
Evoking smiles as she said he was an excellent babysitter and could always be counted on to look after her daughter whenever she had to go out, JJ simply said, “Thank you my brother.”
Officiating over the solemn send-off, visually-impaired Father Mikkel Trestrail sought to articulate the questions by those mourning the loss of the four victims as he asked, “God, how were you present in the midst of this situation?”
He went on, “Because God, if you are with me and you are with us, then harm should not come our way.”
Admitting this was one of the struggles Christians grappled with as the rationale that they love and serve God meant they should not experience such hardship and torment, Trestrail said Jack’s family and friends were still unable to understand or accept the loss.
Offering comfort to those present, he urged, “We find our strength in a God who is hurting along with us over this man’s death, and the death of all those who suffer loss in this country.”
He said despite the belief that some persons deserve what is meted out to them, they are someone’s loved one.
“No death is ever justified, no death is ever right and God weeps over the loss of every single one of his children,” Trestrial advised.
He said this story had not ended and as such, those left to mourn should take comfort in God and believe it will get better.
Trestrail’s statement that “Mr Jack was really a man with a heart of gold,” drew nods and smiles, as he remembered the famous fry-bake, doubles and pies Jack had been known for.
The priest implored people not to let this situation make them bitter and close off their hearts to love and hope.
Turning up to pay his respects, musician and entertainer Kees Dieffenthaller told Guardian Media, “We need to stop this cycle.”
Hurting over the loss of the family friend and the circumstances under which he was killed, he continued, “Jack is love and light.”
“He touched our lives, his family’s lives and was somebody very special to us ... and to feel this loss today, it is very heart-breaking.”
Dieffenthaller reiterated it was time to stop the cycle, adding, “We need to stop being pawns and start standing up for love, standing up for peace.”
